Tuesday, April 19, 2005
EVERYTHING BEN MARTIN SAYS IS A LIE...
To all of you who know me:
You can imagine my surprise, when I got to work this morning and I had dozens of emails and messages on MySpace and Friendster.
It has come to my attention that Ben Martin has sent messages to countless people on my friend list, on the friend lists of many of my friends, as well as the Berklee message board on Myspace. I don’t fully understand what his issue is with me, but now I feel I have to explain myself to clear up any lies people now may or may not believe about me.
The allegations that seem to have been made against me are that I “left Jay at the alter.” This is a flat-out lie. I met Jay while I was at Berklee. He went there for a few years and we had some classes together. Then I ran back into him after Matt and I broke up. Jay and I were together on and off for several months. He did want to get married when we were in Vegas for the American Idol auditions in September, but that was way too soon and way too crazy for me. I told him “no” and left Vegas with some friends. We were together for a couple of months after that. I really did care about him, but I finally couldn’t handle him anymore and broke up with him. It’s right around that time that I met Clint. I assume that Clint is the “mechanic” Ben is referring to that I supposedly cheated on Jay with. But you can’t cheat on someone you’re not together with, and I haven’t seen Clint in months. I’ve been trying to find him again.
All of the trouble started when Ben found out I was on MySpace. That is apparently when he started messaging my friends and anyone who might know me trying to get information. As far as I know, Ben never went to Berklee. He used to hang out there because all of his friends did. Both he and Jay are really messed up on drugs most of the time, and that is why I prefer to stay away from them. And I want no contact with them whatsoever. I don’t know why they have this insane need to find me and I don’t know why they are harassing all of my friends (as well as people who only know me by association) and spreading rumors and lies about me.
Many people who got the messages probably don’t even care. A lot of you I probably haven’t even spoken to in years. But for those of you who do care, I just felt I should be able to clear my name. I do know that Ben went through the friend lists of some of my friends and sent messages to people that were not even on my list. If you know of anyone who got a message who is asking questions and wondering about it, please let them know these are all lies. And I apologize for the riff-raff I keep company with from time to time.
Hope this message finds all well
Blessed Be
Debbie Little
To all of you who know me:
You can imagine my surprise, when I got to work this morning and I had dozens of emails and messages on MySpace and Friendster.
It has come to my attention that Ben Martin has sent messages to countless people on my friend list, on the friend lists of many of my friends, as well as the Berklee message board on Myspace. I don’t fully understand what his issue is with me, but now I feel I have to explain myself to clear up any lies people now may or may not believe about me.
The allegations that seem to have been made against me are that I “left Jay at the alter.” This is a flat-out lie. I met Jay while I was at Berklee. He went there for a few years and we had some classes together. Then I ran back into him after Matt and I broke up. Jay and I were together on and off for several months. He did want to get married when we were in Vegas for the American Idol auditions in September, but that was way too soon and way too crazy for me. I told him “no” and left Vegas with some friends. We were together for a couple of months after that. I really did care about him, but I finally couldn’t handle him anymore and broke up with him. It’s right around that time that I met Clint. I assume that Clint is the “mechanic” Ben is referring to that I supposedly cheated on Jay with. But you can’t cheat on someone you’re not together with, and I haven’t seen Clint in months. I’ve been trying to find him again.
All of the trouble started when Ben found out I was on MySpace. That is apparently when he started messaging my friends and anyone who might know me trying to get information. As far as I know, Ben never went to Berklee. He used to hang out there because all of his friends did. Both he and Jay are really messed up on drugs most of the time, and that is why I prefer to stay away from them. And I want no contact with them whatsoever. I don’t know why they have this insane need to find me and I don’t know why they are harassing all of my friends (as well as people who only know me by association) and spreading rumors and lies about me.
Many people who got the messages probably don’t even care. A lot of you I probably haven’t even spoken to in years. But for those of you who do care, I just felt I should be able to clear my name. I do know that Ben went through the friend lists of some of my friends and sent messages to people that were not even on my list. If you know of anyone who got a message who is asking questions and wondering about it, please let them know these are all lies. And I apologize for the riff-raff I keep company with from time to time.
Hope this message finds all well
Blessed Be
Debbie Little
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